Participation required
By Simon Harris
As leaders, there’s a fairly narrow gap between absenteeism and intervention. I’ll readily admit that I have found it challenging to get that right. We want to encourage empowerment, autonomy, and agency; on the other hand, we want to ensure we are providing the right level of support and guidance.
Our desire to step back and let go can lead us to not being around and only showing up when something goes wrong. As a result, we can lack understanding of the context and the challenges our teams are facing, making it more difficult to know what they need. When we do turn up, our presence signals a lack of trust and confidence in others’ ability to do the job and diminishes our ability to support them when they need it most.
Our desire to nurture a culture of continuous improvement can lead to us being too involved. If our identity is as a problem solver, we might be too quick to jump in and fix things. Perhaps worse, we might so crave the need to solve problems that we don’t realise we’re creating them in the first place. Longer term, we are likely to engender a culture of dependence and learned helplessness where our teams don’t believe in themselves sufficiently to solve their own problems.
In my experience, the best leaders genuinely participate without judgement or agenda in order to enable and empower their teams. They are there when they’re needed and not when they’re not. They are present and engaged without taking over. They are involved and invested without looking for problems to fix. They are supportive and encouraging without building dependence.
Participatory leadership is knowing when to lead, when to be led, and when to get out of the way. It’s connecting people, creating and holding the space for them, helping with jobs to be done, and allowing things to play out. It’s fostering a sense of ownership and accountability by actively involving and guiding others in problem-solving and decision-making. It’s recognising that no individual possesses all the necessary information or expertise, and that we don’t need to have all the knowledge and all the answers. It’s being comfortable being uncomfortable.
The best and most inspiring leaders I’ve seen deliberately learn and practice techniques that enable them to truly participate.
